Lipstick

in defense of femininity

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new hair for my single life. also entitled “sitting at home hating everything and feeling both ugly and worthless but attempting a very fake smile.”

new hair for my single life. also entitled “sitting at home hating everything and feeling both ugly and worthless but attempting a very fake smile.”

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riese for autostraddle.com: i have a tough question i hope you'll answer. would you ever be open to being with a woman who had/has an std? what are...

I love the answer to this question.

autostraddle:

yes i would be open to being with a woman who had / has an std. also, my feelings would not differ at varying levels of ‘extremeness.’
that is what dental dams and gloves and maturity are for.
i feel like if i can be sexy while i’m pregnant (i was) or when it’s 115 degrees outside and i’m…

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Femme

The downside of being very femme is that 99% of gay girls, or the world at large, for that matter, don’t know you’re gay. 

This means that once it’s clear that you are single and available…you will only gain attention from men, and 99% of lesbians will steer clear of you. 

There’s also this issue of growing up closeted and “as a straight girl.” There are times when I seriously feel like a gay girl programmed to interact in the straight dating world. I don’t know how to approach a girl or how to make it clear to people that I’m gay without drastically changing the way I look/act…not something I really want to do. 

I feel like if I never approach someone I’ll be single forever, because I just so happen to fly under the gaydar. 

I have no clue how to do this.

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Oh god, my life…

thebadwolfproject:

benedictcumberbatch:

fideliuscharm-:

TUMBLR, PLEASE RISE FOR OUR NATIONAL ANTHEM.

I had my sound on mute so was thinking, ‘da fuq is this’
Then I turned sound on and laughed. 

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.

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brittanymcmillan:

It’s been decided. On October 20th, 2010, we will wear purple in honor of the 7 gay boys who committed suicide in recent weeks/months due to homophobic abuse in their homes and at their schools. Purple represents Spirit on the LGBTQ flag and that’s exactly what we’d like all of you to have with you: spirit. Please know that times will get better and that you will meet people who will love you and respect you for who you are, no matter your sexuality. Please wear purple on October 20th. Tell your friends, family, co-workers, neighbors and schools. RIP Tyler Clementi, Asher Brown, Seth Walsh, Justin Aaberg, Raymond Chase, Billy Lucas and Cody J. Barker (picture not shown). You are loved.
NOW GO TUMBLR BLOGGERS, REBLOG LIKE CRAZY! WE WANT EVERYONE IN ON THIS!

brittanymcmillan:

It’s been decided. On October 20th, 2010, we will wear purple in honor of the 7 gay boys who committed suicide in recent weeks/months due to homophobic abuse in their homes and at their schools. Purple represents Spirit on the LGBTQ flag and that’s exactly what we’d like all of you to have with you: spirit. Please know that times will get better and that you will meet people who will love you and respect you for who you are, no matter your sexuality. Please wear purple on October 20th. Tell your friends, family, co-workers, neighbors and schools. RIP Tyler Clementi, Asher Brown, Seth Walsh, Justin Aaberg, Raymond Chase, Billy Lucas and Cody J. Barker (picture not shown). You are loved.

NOW GO TUMBLR BLOGGERS, REBLOG LIKE CRAZY! WE WANT EVERYONE IN ON THIS!

(Source: thewardrobeintocamelot, via trixiejackmattachine)

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